My Cat Died and I Feel Empty

My big cat both your littermate and the sister you adopted will miss you more than anything. I had her for 16 years and I just feel really broken up about it.

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Id gotten Chappy cat and a year after King George I lost Chappy too.

. My cat died alone and I feel so guilty. My cat died unexpectedly and Im feeling so empty inside. I thought that if I talked very matter of fact about the fact that he would need to be put down in the weeks leading up to it I would be more prepared.

You can only do what you thought was the right choice at the time - you did do your best for him but sadly it just didnt work out. My Cat Just Died and It Hurts Like Hell. But a time went pasted i felt like she was still by my side and happy were she was so if a pet dies dont feel like heshe was gone forever because they are still with you no matter what.

They want to hold him one more time. But some days I just feel so empty and completely devoid of emotion. One day at a time.

My cat got sick very suddenly and died Saturday. They said there was nothing they could do. My family has said goodbye to 7 cats 6 dogs a guinea pig 3 birds 2 ferrets and many fish since about 2009.

Nothing actually happened to him. My Pet Died and I Cant Stop Crying. Otherwise Ill never be happy again When you miss your cat nothing erases the pain.

My cat of 18 years passed away at home recently beyond the obvious loss is the pain inside that I was away on a job thousands of miles from home when he died. I know everyone takes their own time and pets are meaningful but. Cancer took you from us.

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I feel responsible for my cats death. Many cats hide when they are sick. Walking by the Empty Dog Bed Can Be too Painful.

He collapsed and started having trouble breathing and making a horrible rasping sound and I jumped in the car and raced to the vet but the rasps grew farther and farther apart and by the time I got there I knew he was gone but I hoped they could resuscitate him. You died in my arms and your beautiful little spirit left with the church bells ringing in the 900 mass. A couple of weeks ago my cat died and Im so mad about it I could spit.

My arms still feel empty. Many cat owners think that when a cat goes off to die it is a peaceful death. I didnt cry when my dad died I kind of went numb and never became unnumb.

Reach Out If Issues. My cat died about six months ago and I still am not over it. We didnt take her to the vets for it until late march.

Server Move Is Completed. My cat Chelsea had been meowing excessively not like she was in pain just meowing a lot for a couple of months. As I write this Im only 2 days away from finally euthanizing my 9 year old tabby cat Charlie.

Before the loss your pet was there and a feeling of love when you looked at him or her. I got Miss Mocha and Kitty and ten years later I lost Miss Mocha. Close your eyes and picture the hole or the darkness that is left after your pet is gone.

Ive had a whinge and a whine at times and shed a few tears but I cant cry real. My 3 year old cat has been obsessed with me the last few days and Im not sure why but she sits in my lap or sleeps on my chest every day now. I just feel so.

Answer 1 of 145. He was my first child. It takes active muscle control to close the eyes.

My cat died when i was ten and i felt like i would never be happy agin. Its posts like yours that make me extra grateful for the time I. I miss my cat dearly and deeply but I have to let him go.

Its the deal you make having pets - you know they dont live for very long and you will be devastated when you lose them. We didnt notice any other symptoms aside from the meowing and. The same is true of humans 2.

But the fun love companionship. After my husband died 12 years ago his cat Tigger left then the next year our cat King George died of cancer. But I feel nothing as if I dont care.

I find myself saying that my cat died and I feel guilty very often. My grandmother died right after my uncle died and even my cat died. Before I answer this personal question I have to share a little story with you.

But our words of comfort and compassion will help you feel less alone. It hurts to lose our beloved cats but we shouldnt feel guilty. I want to cry over my dad.

JuneI feel your painfor I feel the sameI lost my wife of 23yrs on 12817 to acute leukemiaI feel so lost and emptyI dont have the desire and drive to do anythingI even lost my job over not being there enoughIt hurts so badI just dont know what to doI just wish my life was overI try going to churchbut find the memories of us. Answer 1 of 77. Its the worst feeling Id rather be sobbing.

Ive not had a real ball since I found out my dad was dying early March 2011. After you read the story I hope you will have your answer. I have an inkling of what you feel - my last girl had to be PTS in kennels when I went on holiday.

Now theres just emptiness and darkness filled with feelings of grief and sadness. You offered your home and your cat loves you for it. I want to cry over my dog.

Im posting here instead of the pets forum because I just feel so guilty. My cat died unexpectedly and Im feeling so empty inside. Most of all we feel the immediate absence of our pets impact within our lives when they leave.

Each form although completely different is an attempt to reduce emotional harm and to cope with the loss of their beloved animal that has passed. My house is exactly as you describe an empty place now. Its horrible to think of them being alone and seeing their empty.

Reconnecting with the love after pet loss. Were grieving alongside you we know how it feels to face an empty home without a beloved cat and we care how you feel. By iwouldhireme March 2.

Caitee February 24 2020 at 308 pm Reply. But its always difficult to let them go. Even writing this I just feel nothing.

My house seems weird without him in it. 18 years is a long time to have a loving companion that would curiously inspect my bags as I came home meet me at the door each night and curl. Cats die with their eyes open.

This is a defensive mechanism to prevent predators from spotting them in a vulnerable state. When I was a struggling college student a kitten entered my life that changed me into a responsible adult.

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